Love Makes you take people for Granted?

Some one once said to me ...."you know what deepika ...I generally start taking people close to me, for granted."

I felt that Quote to non-convincing...there was something missing …..coz if I know love well I know one thing for sure when you love someone you cannot take things for granted ….coz love makes you to give more into the relationship than what you expect in return …. Then what is that makes you take people for granted?.....aah aah I got the answer ….it is when you are loved by a person and you are aware of it ….. it makes you feel you are gr8 n now you no longer need to take pains to keep this person tied to yourself and your life.

So its when you are loved n you don’t love that person enough .. is when you start taking things for granted with that person….but then all of us make this blunder hell lot of times with our closed ones .. while we are busy hunting people down to add them in our friend list ….trying to impress them and make them fall in love with us …… and once you get them on your FAN list ….there you go back in the vast jungle of people ….. ready for a new hunt ….hmmmmmmm

And then suddenly things start changing …. Luck no longer favors you ….you start becoming helpless in your life ….u start losing control of the things that you once boasted upon…..tragedies seem to be the part of your everyday life things suddenly start shattering in front of your eyes you begin to collapse with no one that you trusted seem to be around ….naa naa …you r getting me all wrong … its not the old age I m talking of …. It’s the beginning of a new phase in your life ….THE BAD PHASE …. The phase in which you r most vulnerable to the slightest hurt from your so called closed ones …coz life has been playing enough games to keep your heart in pain….the phase in which your minimum expectation is plain support of your loved ones ….. the phase in which you realize the importance of silent and invisible love in your life ….the phase that teaches you humility ….the phase that makes you realize the presence of THE SUPREME POWER ….the phase that brings out the Human Being hidden behind the Animal in you.

There you really start meeting the true and genuine people in your life … the “closed ones” who were always taken for granted by you are the only ones who believe in you …no matter what …. And all those --- your special friends and the fascinating world seem to blame you for every thing that has been wrong in your own life ….. funny isn’t it …yeah right this is when you start realizing the value of true, eternal love, the love that never expects anything in return …. Love that seeks happiness in your smiles …love that breaks down on a single tear in your eyes …. Love that lives just to make you happy …… and now its your turn ….to give them back everything that they were showering on you without your awareness ….u start learning the fun in loving people ….rather than impressing them and making them fall in love with you …you start realizing that happiness can be created within yourself rather than chasing it …..you get the biggest blessing of God “the ability to love people without any expectation”….the biggest virtue of mankind ….

So I just want to bring awareness in our minds ….that if you feel you have been taking someone in your life for granted ….. you have not being true to yourself …you have not loved that person enough…. .moreover you have not loved that person at all…..its high time now that you take things in your hand and realize the worth of true closed ones in your life ….and all before mother nature starts playing her games …..actually now i get the catch of the first statement i wrote ....he was not taking his loved ones for granted ....he was taking the people who loved him for granted ....hmmm



And just an honest confession from my side ….. I LOVE YOU ALL A LOT …